Considerate

How considerate should someone be for others. It seems that the consideration is at least a burden of effort to ask that things are okay, at at most serious sacrifice on your part to make someone else happy / avoid them being unhappy.

While going through life without considering others seems very selfish, the demands of others to be considered and accommodated can make it almost impossible to do something you actually fully want.

I wonder if being inconsiderate as a default is preferable to treating yourself right and living life as you want to live it.